FREQUENTLY ASKED QUESTIONS

"Lady Christina, I've been wondering...."

* I can't decide between Elysium & Bondassage. How do I choose?

Great question! Let's begin with what is the same for both sessions. Both sessions include a high quality blindfold, high quality headphones with great music, high quality FBSM & light bondage.

They both take a light, fun attitude towards power dynamics - I allow the modality itself to work it's magic. I am a FemDom who dominates thru pleasure, sensuality and enjoying props and toys that take control over your body. I am not into any extreme anything so neither has extreme kink practices or leaves any kinds of marks.

There isn't much talking in either - I'm an action gal. Both do include you taking orders, being directed, being controlled and being obedient.

Elysium are 100% about edging, enhancing deep relaxation and blissful pleasure. I usually only do bondage your ankles for Elysium sessions that allow for some lite mutual touch, which with a blindfold on can be incredibly exciting to brush past your hands when you least expect it.

If pegging is part of the session it is a sensual, soft, intimate form of that.

Bondassage are all about the spicer sensations. Bondassage uses paddles, spanks, a real slap with hands and a flogger, and all sorts of toys to take you into the intensity of the edge of light pain into great pleasure. That is blended with high quality FBSM.

*How do we interact during the session?

Bondassage & Elysium are immersive experiences that are focused on you experiencing the modality of Bondassage or Elysium.

It's time for you to drift away and have some great "me" time. You don't have to talk to anyone or worry about anything, You just get to fully receive and surrender deeply into your own pleasure and sensuality. It's time just for you to have some high quality self-care time where it's all about you.

My favorite thing to do is get into "hot pleasure scientist " mode and immerse myself in all the ways I can create the most fun adventure of pure sensations and fun relaxation. I love when clients surrender to the session and allow me to just focus on playing with them in all the ways I am inspired (within your boundaries and mine) to make it the best.

And, you can customize some elements. Let me know if you want to blindfold the entire time or not (it is always part of the session in some capacity). Or, if you want the headphones on the whole time or not. My recommendation is to choose the "chef's choice" of how the sessions were designed & I also am happy to discuss small adjustments that would make it the best experience for you.

The biggest common thing clients share after their sessions is that they feel re-energized because the sessions are deeply relaxing and really exciting at the same time. They also say what's so fun is it has a bit of a live VR quality to it because you have a blindfold and real quality headphones with great music but all the pleasure to every inch of you is live and actually happening!

* I'm not that into Bondassage or Elysium. Can I pitch you the type of session I would like to have?

Nope. I love the phrase "an inch wide, a mile deep". I have extensive experience in exploring many aspects of practitioner titles. I am absolutely fabulous at FBSM. I am a Certified Urban Tantra Practitioner. I have been an official Dominatrix. I am pouring all of that knowledge into writing books and focusing all my energy in those regards into that. I've gained so much knowledge from seeing amazing clients from all walks of life in so many cool capacities that I am excited to share that knowledge.

What I love about Bondassage & Elysium & The Secret Massage is they take everything I enjoy doing as a practitioner and puts it all into a simple, straight-forward space. It really is having it all! It allows me to focus my energy on providing the best Bondassage & Elysium experiences possible. It's a bit like Goldilocks and the Three Bears - Bondassage/Elysium or The Secret Massage are just right.

*I don't see testimonials on your site. How come?

I am so thankful for the abundance of wonderful emails I receive of praise, celebration, and gratitude for my sessions. And, I view every client as an individual who just deserves the dignity of discretion and privacy to creatively explore such a intimate experiences for themselves. I consider any client email a private email that I would never reprint anywhere.

I've also seen providers myself and would be so turned off to see my private email of abundant thanks and acknowledgement splashed on a web page. I'm old-fashioned in that way.

And, I am here to answer any question you have about the session and am always happy to email or jump on a call to help you decide if my work is the right match for you.

*Most of your reviews on third-party review sites are old. What's that about?

When I found out I don't really have recent reviews I was really happy to hear that. In the same vein as testimonials, I consider each session a private experience between people that I value as our 1:1 connection. I don't have any control over people posting reviews but I find in crass. I'm an elite practitioner with many high-profile clients who love my discretion and class. You will always receive that from me and I appreciate clients who have that same respect for our private experience. All my photos are recent and accurate. I have a natural curvy look - no plastic surgery, fillers, or implants.

*There are a lot of scammers out there. How do I know you are a real person?

I enjoy this work so much and believe in it's positive qualities so much I hate that scammers would spoil people feeling safe to book a session! I really hate scammers.

The platforms I have ads on require a very extensive verification process- it takes over a month. I had to work very hard to prove to them I am a real person, which is something I really like about them. I also am on the Certified Bondassage Practitioner site and the creator of Bondassage knows me and set up my professional training. I also have a high-end paid ad on my platform of choice. There is no reason I would put this much work into something other than it is my practice that I have trained for.

I am always happy to jump on a brief call to answer any questions.